tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post113959149580887609..comments2023-10-04T05:45:18.343-05:00Comments on <B>DISCO'S GRUUV..... <i>the life of a discodiva</i></b>: Valentines, Smalentines......Discohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06458390709444803956noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1140013329859641042006-02-15T09:22:00.000-05:002006-02-15T09:22:00.000-05:00Oral sex. It always fits and if it gets returned,...Oral sex. It always fits and if it gets returned, all the better.<BR/><BR/>KZKnockout Zedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16269881581495882209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1139951091063180712006-02-14T16:04:00.000-05:002006-02-14T16:04:00.000-05:00A mans ego is a powerful opponent when in any rela...A mans ego is a powerful opponent when in any relationship/marriage. You expressing yourself this way shows that you love your husband a great deal and have learned to take the good with the bad. <BR/><BR/>I wish more women were like. Keep ya head up Ms Robyn your hubby might surprise you with something you actually do like.Mr.Slishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00494177480657519038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1139853823044710042006-02-13T13:03:00.000-05:002006-02-13T13:03:00.000-05:00For what it's worth I agree with chele. The way h...For what it's worth I agree with chele. The way he expresses and possibly defines love seems different than yours. You obviously love him but like you said he isn't the creative and demonstrative type. If it "just ain't him" sad to say it's probably never going to be him. The only thing you can do is change your expectations from him and of what you want or change your ways so that he feels secure and comfortable enough to step out of his comfort level and try being creative.Freaky Deakyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13579464180327499627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1139716299825869442006-02-11T22:51:00.000-05:002006-02-11T22:51:00.000-05:00Valentine's Day makes me crazy because I'm always ...Valentine's Day makes me crazy because I'm always wishing and hoping for some type of mystical, fantasy type romance that neer happens. Where I got that fantazy from I have not a clue but this year it will be different. I'm gonna act just like the men do as if it were just another day!Superstar Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08085149924609867792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1139697680415351882006-02-11T17:41:00.000-05:002006-02-11T17:41:00.000-05:00I married my first wife on Valentines Day, and she...I married my first wife on Valentines Day, and she still had “pushy/nagging/bitchy-assed” tendencies throughout the marriage. Thats only why I divorced her...well, she divorced me, but damn, thank you she did after I found myself someone not so “pushy/nagging/bitchyBrotha Buckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18027333036897650565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1139687599479104522006-02-11T14:53:00.000-05:002006-02-11T14:53:00.000-05:00I don't too much care for Valentine's Day either. ...I don't too much care for Valentine's Day either. And it's not because I'm single even though sometimes it may effect me to see people hand and hand. But it sure is funny that the next day after Valentine's all those lovely couples are back to fussing again, LOL! And I've never been close to marriage but I hear that all men lose that romantic spark once they slip the ring on your finger. Sigh. Well at least we get the ring, LOL!Stacy-Deannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00252217315669096281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1139684144012680662006-02-11T13:55:00.000-05:002006-02-11T13:55:00.000-05:00I so wanna wish you a happy Valentines day, but I ...I so wanna wish you a happy Valentines day, but I can't, seeing as how... But,if I can offer a suggestion... To possibly get the fire back between you and your man, may I suggest that you, at some point during your days together, just reach and hold his hand and tell him how much he continues to daze, amaze, and craze you by being such an awesome husband, father, lover.. I mean, you been thinking that, right? Why not just tell him, girl? Don't bump heads with him anymore. Give his ego a nice stroking and meet him halfway. Men LOVE to be babied, too. I bet the more generous you are with the compliments, the more he'll start to consider going the extra step when it comes to your feelings. No doubt, you love that man. Just tell him that. From your lips to his heart... I mean: do you wanna be in love and making love, or, do you wanna always be right all the time? Both of y'all got some bad attitudes (LOL), which is like trying to mix oil and water ( or vinegar). Somehow, someway, one of y'all is gonna have to soften up and say: "Husband (or wife), I can't have another one of these sorry *** Valentine's days. Either we apologize to each other and get this thang back on track, or just make an agreement to never think about Valentines day again." LOL Listen at me trying to give advice to a married woman - like I know what it's all about...LOL. Anyway, momma, you have a good one and go get your love on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1139627046840868242006-02-10T22:04:00.000-05:002006-02-10T22:04:00.000-05:00I feel you Robyn! I hate my anniversery because i...I feel you Robyn! I hate my anniversery because it always signals chaos! Our first one, my Dad died. The second one we were apart of the wedding from hell. The third one I suffered a miscarriage. The fourth one was the weekend my daughter left for college. This year is our 5th anniversery and I'm afraid to plan for it.....LOL.Shawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10211351320234173268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1139599024550418202006-02-10T14:17:00.000-05:002006-02-10T14:17:00.000-05:00Gosh Robyn. Have you read the book about the 5 lo...Gosh Robyn. Have you read the book about the 5 love languages? You and your hubby just perceive love in different ways. You like the grand gesture and he doesn't. <BR/><BR/>When me and my ex split he told me that all he wanted to do was love me and I wouldn't let him. I wanted him to love me according to MY definition. Which was different than his. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry you hate Valentine's Day for that reason. But somehow or another you are going to have to accept your husband's definition of love ... and know that you are blessed that you have someone that wants to love you. <BR/><BR/>Or ... you can say screw it and buy yourself something REALLY nice. Enjoy your weekend!chelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15468273174800571759noreply@blogger.com