tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post113658190454528355..comments2023-10-04T05:45:18.343-05:00Comments on <B>DISCO'S GRUUV..... <i>the life of a discodiva</i></b>: Rush to work and opinionsDiscohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06458390709444803956noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1136815132934542142006-01-09T08:58:00.000-05:002006-01-09T08:58:00.000-05:00You're not trifling. I understand that your girl f...You're not trifling. I understand that your girl felt inconvenienced but that was on her. I don't think this is a trait that you acquired overnight. If you've known each other for that long she should know you by now and deal with it.<BR/><BR/>I used to unplug my phone all the time when I didn't feel like being bothered. I only recently got call-waiting and I NEVER click over when the other line beeps. <BR/><BR/>I'm not a phone person and have never been one and people who know me know that and have learned to leave me the hell alone.chelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15468273174800571759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1136676504472843462006-01-07T18:28:00.000-05:002006-01-07T18:28:00.000-05:00Damn, I'm the same way. People don't say I'm trif...Damn, I'm the same way. People don't say I'm trifling though. They say I'm evil and/or ornery. I've had the exact same argument and pretty much gave your answer, except with more sarcasm. <BR/><BR/>I find that when you're having the same old argument it's because the issue isn't being resolved. I told one woman who called me evil that unless she paid my phone bill and actually paid me to be oncall to her I would answer <B>my</B> phone anytime and any way I damn well pleased. I then let her know that while I liked her she wasn't going to keep calling me evil without me living up to it and telling her things she needed to know but definitely didn't want to know about herself.<BR/><BR/>She got huffy and puffy and got off the phone but she was put on notice about her behavior and my willingness to end our friendship. She never called me evil or blew up my phone like she lost her mind ever again.Freaky Deakyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13579464180327499627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1136640464509093762006-01-07T08:27:00.000-05:002006-01-07T08:27:00.000-05:00Dang Disco Diva...Chill out, with you old TRIFLING...Dang Disco Diva...<BR/><BR/>Chill out, with you old TRIFLING ass!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!<BR/><BR/>But seriously, you said something that caught my eye...<BR/><BR/>"I have always been one who believes that if I don’t feel like talking to you, I am not going to answer the phone."<BR/><BR/>Are we separated at birth or something?? I'm the same way, and people act like I just stole something if I don't answer the phone (or answer the door, for that matter) when someone calls.<BR/><BR/>When you first detailed what happened, I thought "Maybe this broad is real young, like in her early 20's". But nawl, she your age... And she acted like that? Over a freakin' bassinet? Come on now. Get a damn life.<BR/><BR/>Me, I throw people in 2 categories: folks who can accept me and my ways (as I am all too happy to deal with them and accept their ways) and folks who can't deal with me or get a damn attitude because I don't do everything the way they THINK I should do them... The latter HATES me, and think I am a evil person... No it's not that. It's just that I ain't your puppet!<BR/><BR/>All I know, that's some straight up craziness. I mean, High school is over. Maybe she was dealing with some deeper issues, who knows? Hope you make up with your girl, but you gonna have to let her know... This is who I am, and I ain't changing it...LadyLeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14895667783148669410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1136620905064242672006-01-07T03:01:00.000-05:002006-01-07T03:01:00.000-05:00Answer that damn phone and stop being so trifling!...Answer that damn phone and stop being so trifling!<BR/><BR/>*crickets*<BR/><BR/>KZKnockout Zedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16269881581495882209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1136608567038733462006-01-06T23:36:00.000-05:002006-01-06T23:36:00.000-05:00Girl, I was getting nervous reading this story. I ...Girl, I was getting nervous reading this story. I kept saying to myself "oh lawd", LOL. But I see you kept your cool and I commend you for that (smile).<BR/><BR/>Now........uhmmmmmmmm, who is she to tell you when to answer the damn phone?!?! If you don't wanna talk, you don't wanna talk! I periodically feel the same way and its not even like I'm screening calls. Sometimes I'm like I don't care who it is, I'm don't even move when I hear the phone ring. <BR/><BR/>Sometimes people don't want to be bothered for whateva reason and that is not trifling! I mean you were doing her a favor anyway by letting her borrow it in the first place. People can really be a trip some times.Superstar Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08085149924609867792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13873500.post-1136592583358256212006-01-06T19:09:00.000-05:002006-01-06T19:09:00.000-05:00I'm so glad I don't work downtown anymore! There ...I'm so glad I don't work downtown anymore! There are certain things I miss, like coming over to the RenCen. There is nothing like driving 5 minutes to get home. Aren't we blessed to have jobs in Detroit girl!Shawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10211351320234173268noreply@blogger.com